This past month I have seen lessons about self-compassion and allowing the unconditional love of the divine to fill up our hearts and souls. One thing I am shown over and over again is that there is no judgment in the spirit world. There are no “wrong” decisions (except perhaps violations of Universal Law), just opportunities for learning and when the lesson isn’t mastered opportunities to learn the lesson again or in a deeper or different fashion. Even those who commit violations of Universal Law are not condemned; they merely have more or different work to do in the Spirit World. There is no blame for actions taken which hurt another or hurt yourself – just a chance to see the consequences of those actions through the eyes and emotions of the one affected, to observe without judgment in order to learn and advance one’s soul. It seems that all souls are welcomed home after the transition we call death to the unconditional love of God (the One), and it is that soul’s choice – much like it is ours in the physical world – whether to sit in a state of self-judgment, self-blame or to let go of judgment, be grateful for the lessons and open to the healing flow of unconditional love.
In the past month, I have delivered that message to a number of individuals without knowing in advance what message Spirit wanted to deliver. Each situation was different, but the lesson and the opportunity for healing was the same. There was the son who had commit suicide telling his mother that she needed to let go of any level of self-blame questioning whether she could have done anything to prevent his death. There was the dentist who had spent his professional career doing the best to serve the health of his patients who held deep guilt over techniques that he had practiced – once considered best practices but today being shown to cause great harm to not only patients but the dentists and dental assistants exposed to toxins – being told to forgive himself, to recognize that he never acted with malicious intent and to see the divine perfection in the lessons and timing of the lessons he’d learned, in advancing his ability to heal even more people than he’d felt he’d inadvertently harmed. There was the woman – a mother of children who were now grown – who blamed herself for having, in her 20s, lost the necklace that her father had given her before he died subconsciously tied a sense of karmic retribution to events which followed. Her father coming through to tell her that Spirit had taken the necklace from her in order to help teach her that she didn’t need that physical connection to hold onto a connection with the father she now barely remembered because he was with her always if she just trusted her ability to connect to him spiritually. And there were others as well.
One of these people receiving the message last month who experienced nearly instant healing which rippled in deeper and deeper layers for days following the reading told me that she could not even begin to explain the increased perception and understanding of love that followed … equating it to the same exponential growth in understanding love that a first-time parent feels when he or she holds their first child. I told her that I understood, because another gift I receive in choosing to work as a medium is that I am blessed to actually feel what the enormous unconditional love energy flow through me while loved ones in the Spirit world show me what they are trying to send to the person receiving the message. Humbling, yet miraculous!!!!
This lesson of this month’s theme is one that we all can benefit from, as is often the case when message is delivered from Spirit. Sit with yourself and be brave enough to look for the places (no matter how big or small) where you hold onto negative emotions or self-judgment. Move into the eyes of a detached observer watching the “movie of your life,” and then send love and forgiveness to that part of you just like a parent does for their child, just like Spirit sends to each and every one of us. From now through the end of 2015, we are in a period of universal energies which particularly support our ability to deep within ourselves and root out even the smallest pieces of self-judgment in order to release those and allow our souls to ascend in the higher frequency of increased love. Give yourself the gift that Spirit wants us all to receive. Then watch with gratitude and love as miracles begin to unfold in your life.